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Love Your Child
By peace | May 11, 2007
You can address life as a process of realization about your child by utilizing your heart intelligence. By consciously practicing love, a parent can intuitionally protect and guide the child into the proper angles of perception. Quality heart time is provided to encourage the child, without the head energies that cause excessive overprotection, constant stimulation or nullify your bottom-line boundaries. Be creative; encourage enterprising growth. Respectfully and with love, lead your child into unfamiliar situations.
What is love and from where does it come? People have asked that question for thousands of years. Love and the heart have always been closely related, but only now is science beginning to explain why. People hold feelings of love close to their hearts. Love imparts the loyalty and responsibility a parent feels for a child. Love also brings understanding. A parent who loves a child becomes intuitively aware of that child’s needs. Sincere loving by the parent automatically establishes an intuitional field of knowingness between the parent and the child.
In the area of love, the child may sometimes lead the parent, but only when the basic love relationship is already in place. The child is your apprentice in this guild of love. As the parent, your job is to teach intuitive understanding as if it were a science and a skill.
A child develops healthy perceptions and excels if the parent practices being a conscious and consistent model of love. Love is the configuration for effectively communicating with a child of any age. Babies are exceptionally sensitive. They may not comprehend the words, but they hear and feel the love. By acquiring the knowledge to consciously love, parents access a superior intuitional frequency within their own innate intelligence. This quickens the intuitive connection with their baby, toddler, teen, or grown-up child.
Loving parents, by their very nature, provide children with a secure atmosphere in which to perceive life as a series of challenges that build confidence, rather than as a progression of unsolvable problems that destroy self-worth. Most parents love their children, but feel that love isn’t enough to raise a child these days.
If our days are stressful and our minds occupied, love hardly has a chance. We assume we are functioning from a loving place, yet persist in subtly or overtly judging our children, our spouses, or ourselves. To love effectively, we must consciously practice addressing life with love. Love can turn around difficult situations that might otherwise blow up.
Experiencing and expressing love are the peak moments of fulfillment in life. How wonderful that love can be experienced through so many feelings and qualities! A child’s love for her mom or dad has a safe, secure, calming feeling. Her love for her sister has a different quality. Sisters may argue and fight, but the sisterly feelings is a bond that underlies the ups and downs and is sustained through the years.
Sibling bonding feels different from the love felt for a friend. A good friend’s love is there when you need it, but often circumstances and interests take yu and your friends in different directions. Love for the Earth offers yet another feeling, a connection with nature, animals, flowers, trees, the sky, the soil. Feelings of love can be expansive, and compassionate. The bottom line is this — love embraces, fulfills, and rewards. Without love, prosperity seems incomplete. Most educators and our own common sense agree that a loving environment is the most beneficial for learning. It is love that unfolds the gift of self-empowerment.
A physical and spiritual drive toward growth dwells within all children. Growth challenges a child to depart from the known and travel into the unknown. This implies uncertainty, so movement into the unknown can trigger anxiety. Love allows perceptions of life to unfold in an atmosphere of hope and security. A child, ages zero to seven, who learns to inhabit the Earth in a field of love will not experience the internal suffering we call frustration when moving through difficult passage in life. It’s parental love and care that make mastering the early knowledge of motor skills a fun event instead of a growing pain. Providing safe experiences translates as love-in-action for any child. Love prompts parents to re-examine the home climate they provide. Setting boundaries with the heart intuition is solid care that enhances a child’s growth pattern. As security is established, a child will self-validate and self-empower.
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